Meaning of Respect......if u dont, better dont xpect from others....

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Well, after a long hibernate at last i get some time to drop by a few lines into this blog...... :P .. This article was based one of the writters who write this article but i am really like this article. So i decided to share this article with you all.......

Where there is equality there is no respect. And then I mean as valuation on good and bad, large and small. Think highly of, honor and respect (good), Think little of, disrespect, and despise (bad).

When we are equal we are neither larger nor smaller than others and therefore neither look up to nor down on anybody.

Respect can only thrive in comparison with lesser or no respect. We think higher of one than another.In same way self-respect is our value of ourselves and not necessarily compared to others but also compared to what or how we could have been if... If we value ourselves as lesser than then our self-respect is also lesser.If we value ourselves as better than then we see ourselves as respectable.

High and low value of respect is in no accordance with reality. And never can be. We can very well value ourselves and others with great unfairness as well as fair and either way in no accordance with reality.

To value another, whether like this or that, is in itself unfair.We value respect highly and see it as indispensable factor in our lives. And by that we look pass the fact that respect is in fact fear. And then it makes no difference whether it is little or much, for us or from us.To see oneself as lesser or better than other, is fear.

When we see someone as respectable (better than) we see ourselves as lesser than and that is underestimation that often shows itself as weakness or interiority complex, which is fear.

That also applies when we value others as lesser, then we see ourselves as better than and that is overestimation that often shows itself is arrogance which also is fear.

If we don’t see ourselves as better or lesser than others and neither look up to or down on anyone we don’t have the need to show others respect or disrespect.It’s up to each of us to decide whether we choose to create equality, which is peace or respect, which is fear..

Yours truly

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I'm bek from long time been hibernate....

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Hi everyone.... I am miss you all so much..... Firstly, really soli for not been update my blog for a long time due of my work as well other things. It seems my blog full of spiderweb...... Luckily spiderman are not staying at here.. otherwise wat great job.. Why ? At least got a hero to help me to manage my blog then... :P Time pass so fast one of these days.. Without notice it a month ago, i guess but a lot of things had happening.... will let you all know slowly............. okay ..... Stay tune then........

yours truly,

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4 DaYs 3 NiGhTs in KT Part 1

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Hi !! I am bek again. How are you all ? Hope you all still remain the same. Recently, I have been ouf of the town on behalf of my counselor to attend a meeting at Kuala Terengganu. What kind of meeting I need to attend ? Well, the title of the meeting sounds like this "Mesyuarat Pegawai Kaunseling / Psikologi". Wohh, it sounds great, right? It seems like I am a counselor but I am not. Well, I depart from KLIA to Lapangan Terbang Sultan Mahmud it roughly takes 50 minutes.


For sure, I am so excited and thinking how is Kuala Terengganu looks like. In my whole life, I never think that I had chanced to left a foot print in Kuala Terennganu. No matter how is it, I would like to take this opportunity to say thank you to my counselor for letting me to attend the meeting on behalf of her. Thank you so much.


After 50 minutes in the air, at last I reached Kuala Terengganu. You know what I never think that Sultan Mahmud Airport is designed in this way. What way ? In tradition customs of course. Let me show the designed of the airport.

I am really didnt expect the airport are designed in this way. No matter, how is it, each state have their own indentify. Well, its really amazing, right ?

Let me elaborate more about Kuala Terengganu.

Kuala Terengganu (colloquially abbreviated as KT; Jawi: كوالا ترڠڬانو) is the largest city as well as the state and royal capital of Terengganu state, Malaysia. On 1 January 2008, Kuala Terengganu was awarded as a city. The city has a population of 295,306 and is also the seat of a district of the same name.

Kuala Terengganu is located about 500 kilometers northeast of Kuala Lumpur on a promontory surrounded on three sides by the South China Sea. It means the "river mouth of Terengganu", referring to the broad expanse of the Terengganu River estuary which empties into the ocean at this point. People in Terengganu speak Terengganese Malay.

Hopefully, you all get more details about Terengganu. At here, I hope to see you all again in Part 2 about Terengganu and my meeting as well. C ya !!

Yours truly

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Busy Seasons !!

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Hi!! It’s a very long time I didn’t update my blog for a few weeks. Oppss !!! Suppose to be a month? A Month?? Wat happen to me! You all will come thru in your mind. Wat am I busy for? Well, actually this few weeks quite busy with my college stuff. After bek from my holiday mood, the final exam weeks starts. After all, start marking the exam paper. After that, I have to prepare for the program of “Malam Tautan Kenangan”. Reallly hustle and bustle of my life during this few weeks. Don’t worry I will write more post about my busy life

Since this morning I don’t receive any signal from the server. With this opportunity, I would like to jot down a few lines in this blog. It seems I felt lonely this few days after my left and right side of my colleague were gone off for their holidays. Ohh Gash!! So bored man. After all, they are my partner to talk with. I am miss you alI guys. Imagine that you are the only in the rows during working hours for 2 weeks since 15 June 2009-28 June 2009. Wat is happening man? Wat is going on with my bored life in this condition? HUH !!!!

Luckily, I am going out of the town on the 19 June 2009 till 22 June 2009 to Kota Kinabalu (KK). Otherwise, I’m sure bored to death. Well, I am really couldn’t wait for the time to come. Why? So excited for the programe what else? What programe? Program Perjumpaan Alumni Zon Borneo this programe brought to us together all around in Borneo for the ex students of Politeknik & Kolej Komuniti.

If you would like to know further information, follow up my next post then, See you again. Bye


Yours truly,

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HaRvEsT FeSTivALs !!!

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Hi !!! I am bek again. Firstly, I would like to apologize for not been update my blog that been full of cob web. Yeah ! Busy mah ! After all what do you think then ? Well, I would like to share a story about Harvest Festivals. The story begins like this...........






In May, the people of Sabah celebrate their harvest season. Though mainly a festival of the Kadazandusun,which makes up one third of the total population of the state, it is celebrated by every Sabahan.

They give thanks to the gods and spirits for blessings and a good paddy harvest, asking for guidance; they dance and eat and drink amidst much merrymaking! During this harvest festival, the Pesta Ka'amatan, known locally as “Tadau Ka’amatan”, Sabah natives wear their traditional costumes and enjoy a carnival-like atmosphere, which usually stretches from dawn to dawn. Tapai’, as their homemade rice wine is called, is freely served during the festivities.

Although many young native Sabahans have been assimilated into urban settings, living and working in the cities and towns, they return to their ancestral longhouses and villages to join in the annual celebrations of their traditionally agricultural societies.


The origins of Ka'amatan, which means "after harvest", can be traced back to the animistic beliefs of the Kadazandusun. The Kadazans believe in the worship of ancient gods and in the existence of the five main spirits – Kinoingan (Almighty God and Creator), Rusad (Spirit of all living things other than Man), Koududuvo (Spirit of the Living), Tombivo (ghostly Spirit of the Dead) and Rogon (evil Spirit).







According to popular belief, the spirit of the padi plant is said to be part of the Kinoingan commonly known as the Bambaazon, who is revered as the overall creator, an omnipotent source of life and existence. Thus the spirit of Bambaazon is revered in the rice plant, the rice grain and the cooked rice. To the Kadazandusun, paddy is not only their staple food - it is also a sacred plant, a living symbol of Kinoingan's love for his people. Many believe that “without rice, there is no life”.


Rituals performed during Ka'amatan are conducted by the much-respected Bobohizan or Bobolian, who are High Priests and Priestesses. There are several major components that make up Ka'amatan. There is the home coming of the Bambaazon, which is an integral part of the festival, thus ensure an abundant harvest if it is invited to dwell in the best ears of paddy, which have been selected for the next planting season.






Next, there is the Magavau ceremony, where the Bobohizan are given the onerous duty of searching, salvaging and recovering Bambaazon which have inadvertently been lost, stolen or led astray - by pests and predators, natural phenomena such as floods and droughts, careless harvesters, and the like - reciting a long summoning prayer in the beginning of the harvest to cajole and persuade the Bambaazon to return to the rice barns.




Then, there is the Unduk Ngadau, a traditional beauty contest, in which, of course, the fairest in the land will participate, and a Ka'amatan Queen will be selected. This is however no ordinary beauty contest, as it apparently owes its origins to the legend or story of the Kadazandusun's genesis, and their creator, Kinoingan's sacrifice of his only daughter Huminodun, for the love of his people.

Besides the solemn rituals and ceremonies that form the main function of Ka'amatan, a variety of other activities are held in the villages as well as on a state level including traditional sports such as buffalo races, blow pipe competitions traditional dances and arm, knuckle and finger wrestling.

This all about the History of Harvest Festival. So, what are we waiting for ? Wish you all have a wonderful Harvest Festivals this month. C Ya...

yours truly,

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3 DaYs 2 NiGhT iN TaWaU

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Hi ! it's me again. After been working so hard in the past few days, at last I have a longer holiday. Good Friday is the day we all have the public holiday. So nice i have the other xtra day for me to rest. But my fren from Kota Kinabalu (KK) are coming to pay us (me and Angriani, d KKTS Counselor) a visit . Yeah !! My fren also a counselor as well..... Orait Stop it !! Oh yes, Before i forgot i would like to intro my fren. She's Sharon Kwan.

Before i start continue writing my blog, please allow me to read thru her biodata. Sharon is her name. She is working as a lecturer in one of the local institute. She is a registered counselor in Malaysia this same goes with my BFF, Angriani. Registered Man !! What a shock ! Well, If all of you do have problem in mental, physical and of course not money problem u may drop by to see them. For Sure ur conversation will not be recorded by using cassette player. Uhukssss ..... It's a private and confidential mah.

From the first day she and her lovely hubby arrived, for sure i will be the driver. Bringing her to roaming around Tawau. Ok, from tat day she arrived for sure will bring her to taste Soto Ayam in Tawau. It's really nice to taste. Once u taste it u'll never forget it. After we had our wonderful breakfast, we start out journey to send her hubby named Derek to the PIKOM Fair which it's held in Dewan Masyarakat Tawau. So after i sended her hubby gone to DMT, so we start our plan to eat till the end of the day. Uhuksss....

But we really enjoy ourself unluckily my BFF couldn't join us otherwise we're sure enjoy it very much.

yours truly,

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It's LoNg TimE bEeN HiBeRnAte. I'm BeK aGaiN !!!!

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Hi Guys !!! ....... How’s your life? Well, it seems that I didn’t update blog since a month ago. It seems my blog full of spider web, crocroach, lizardas n etc. Time flies wait for no men. Time really passed so fast one of these days. At here, I would like to share incidents with you all.

Part 1
Our Working Places getting more people…….

Well, since last month we had a lot of educators were joined us in our working places as a part of our family. It is a gud sign or a bad sign. Why? Well for the positive sign my burdens of lecturing are getting lesser. Infact the negative sign of it for sure will miss my beloved students. Uhukssss……… No matter how is it we should think positively. ... Lor :P….


FYI, our educators are great. Why? They all came from different local universities in Malaysia. What are the things comes thru in my mind? Hopefully more TESL educators are posted in our working places…. But its never turns up… So upset…… But it’s okay. Its all right, GO…. GO……….. GO……..
As usual my working places are silent not as usual… but now are different. Our working place is lively…. Really like an office. No matter how is it for sure it have a positive impact as well the negative impact….Well, THINK POSITIVELY….
Last but not least, Gud luck to our new educators… and happy working with us……….c ya …

yours truly,

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MeAnInG oF BeSt FrIeNdS!!!

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Hi !!! I am bek again. After so many weeks away from my planet, Its time for me to come back to see you again guys. After so many weeks away a lot of happiness and sadness things comes around my life. Such as...... find it out urself. If you would like to know it. After all, hopefully doesn't effect me as well.


Today I would like to share you a story regarding a best friends story. What a best friend means ? This story begins like this.........

One can very confidently say that he who has found a best friend in life has found the rarest treasure in this world. Well says an anonymous poet- "Everyone hears what you say. Friends listen to what you say. Best friends listen to what you don't say."

In our everyday life we get to know so many people. Some of them become close friend. But there is a subtle difference between close friends and best friends. Friends are ones that support you in your work and help you when you make a mistake. But best friends will never let you to commit that mistake. They are like the superego in all of us. A true friend will never let you go wrong.

Trust is the most important link amongst best friends. Helen Keller had once said that she preferred walking in the dark with a friend rather than walking alone in light. Best friends show us the correct path when we are lost, laugh with us when we are happy and cry even when we try to hide our tears.

However very paradoxically, it's not always that human beings can be best friends only. Animals can be very loyal friends sometimes. Some people claim that their pet dog is their best friend.

Many social communities have best friends clubs which forwards emotional help to adolescents needing it. Such clubs have volunteers who listen to emotional problems, hold awareness programs and also provide counseling whenever necessary.

No one is perfect in this world. Everyone needs help and support. This is the reason why God has sent us friends. Best friends are so precious that a single article cannot do justice to the topic.

So this is wat i meant Best Friends. So those do not know what does it means, better learn to be an educated person.

yours truly,

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Currently Not Available till Next Month !!

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Hi !! Long time didnt get contact with you all. Its a busy month for this year. At here, I would like to apologize for not update my blog since 2 January 2009. Due of the busy month let me entertain you all with a few Chinese New Year MTV for a time been. At here, I would like to wish you all HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR. MAY YOU DREAMS COME TRUE THROUGH OUT THIS YEAR.





Hope you all will like it. See you all again by next month. C ya !!








yours truly,

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Year of Ox / New Born of 2009

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At last I have been waiting so long. Time really past so fast one of these days. I didnt realize that I have been working in my lovely environment in my Kolej Komuniti for 2 years ++. Really didnt realize it ? For sure one thing I'm getting older. No matter how is it, I must utilize all my time to fullfill my dreams / plan throughout this year.


By the way,this year is the Year of Ox. What does it means? What is the characteristic of the Year of Ox ? Let me give u some information regarding about it.




Characteristics people are born in the Year of Ox





People born in the Year of the Ox are patient, speak little, and inspire confidence in others. They tend, however, to be eccentric, and bigoted, and they anger easily. They have fierce tempers and although they speak little, when they do they are quite eloquent. Ox people are mentally and physically alert. Generally easy-going, they can be remarkably stubborn, and they hate to fail or be opposed. They are most compatible with Snake, Rooster, and Rat people.


So wat are u waiting for? Go n grab them. No matter how is it. I would like to wish you all HAPPY NEW YEAR MAY YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE THROUGHOUT THE YEAR



yours truly,

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